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Jan 28, 2025 - 03:52 PM
What happens after a cremation depends on the plans you or your loved one made. If a cremation memorial has been arranged, a service with the loved one’s ashes present can take place. Families may choose to wait until the memorial day to take the urn home, or they may prefer to pick up the ashes beforehand, especially if the service is scheduled weeks or months later and they want their loved one close during that time.
If no service is planned, the funeral home will contact you to arrange a convenient time to collect your loved one’s ashes. If you or your loved one selected an urn—or multiple urns—the funeral home staff will present the urn(s) to you. This moment is often treated with care and respect, with staff ensuring the process is as meaningful and comforting as possible.
For some, picking up a loved one’s ashes from the funeral home can bring renewed feelings of sadness. This is a natural part of the grieving process. If this moment feels overwhelming, it may be helpful to speak with a grief counselor or reach out to a support group for additional guidance and care.
